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And worse, why did I feel bad about our barely-there breakup?
I felt stupid for feeling sad about a pseudo-relationship that now seemed more serious post-breakup than when we were actually sleeping together.
There was the one with my neighborhood gym after a trainer exercised my number too much. I almost felt like chasing it with, “At least you had a boyfriend to break up with you.” But then I realized how ridiculous and unhelpful that sounded.
And there was another with Diet Coke, which took the longest and was most painful. When a friend called me to lament a recent breakup, that was about all I had to draw on to empathize with her.“I’m sorry,” I said. In an age where we embrace casual hookups, defer "getting serious" and eschew the labels, single people often find themselves breaking up with people they were never even technically seeing.
This threat of breaking up constantly hangs over our heads, forcing us to withhold our vulnerabilities and always love with a little bit of detachment.
And when it finally happens, what’s the appropriate response to healing from a non-breakup-breakup? That means remaining friends on social media, keeping your profile picture the same for at least a few days before you switch it to one of you in a bikini and acting non-confrontational when you see him again at the bar.
You can casually sleep together for months and still not call yourselves a couple.
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The romantic world holds possibilities, potential bachelors abound and new freedoms. It’s not necessarily challenging and since you never really got to know your former flame anyway (save for a few hours of pillow talk and shared meals), you’re less likely to miss his personality and more likely to miss his physical presence.
After you break up with someone you never had, your life returns to almost exactly the same it’s been the whole time -- which makes it even more difficult to get over. It’s a surface-level replacement system that perpetuates our singledom by preventing us from getting deeper with any one person.
“It’s just been a while since my last relationship.”There. It’s more of a slow fade-out that involves fewer text messages and a heavy presence on Tinder.
Dating has taken on a certain fluidity; there no longer exists a standardized set of rules for every relationship.